Being a parent is one tough job. But despite that, it can't be unmatched because of the reward that comes from it. Having responsibility over a life and knowing you are leading them to be the best person they can be is something many parents treasure fir their whole life. Thus making it very important for parents to know the right things to say and not to say to their kids to really guide them to becoming responsible and good citizens. And to help parents, here are some tips they need to keep in mind:
Things to Say
• “I love you”. Kids need unconditional love from their parents. So it is very important for parents to always say these three magic words to their kids, no matter what people say about action speaking louder than words, to remind kids of how you feel about them. Giving the proper affection to your kids, even in words, will go a long way and is something that is great in the long run.
• “Thank you”. Not just because you are the parent means that you don’t have to show your gratitude when your kids have done something for you. Not only will this teach them about the right use of these words, they will also feel special whenever they have done something right because they know that you appreciate them.
• “Great job”. Kids always seek approval from their parents. No matter if it is things they will do or things they have already done. So it is very important for parents to show their kids that they appreciate the good things they did, no matter how small it is, so they will continue doing them. Positive reinforcements will go a long way in teaching children on how to be good people.
Things Not to Say
• “I am the parent/adult, so I am right”. This is a common mistakes for parents because they think they are above their children. This attitude of arrogance and selfishness is something that is not needed if you want to teach your kid about right and wrong. It doesn't follow that you are always right because you are the adult. Learn how to listen to your kids when they have something to say. By learning how to talk to children, you can learn more about them instead of always showing them that you are the superior, which will help them become the best persons they can be.
• “Do as I say, not as I do”. Kids can absord everything they see and hear easily, especially when it comes from their parents. And saying this to your kids is very much like saying it to a deaf person; they will just not understand you. So instead of telling your kids what to do, be good role models to them but doing only the things you want them to do. You don’t want them to do something, don’t do it yourself. It may be a cliché, but it is definitely right to just practice what you preach.
• “No”. Though it is true that it is not good to always say yes to your kids, saying no to them all the time will also give them negative vibes. If you cannot avoid saying no to them, try thinking of a more positive way to do it.
Kids are very sensitive, especially on their earlier stages. So it is very important for parents to know what to say and not to say to them. This list is just a start, but hopefully it can help many parents in their journey as the shapers of the future generation's citizens.
Things to Say
• “I love you”. Kids need unconditional love from their parents. So it is very important for parents to always say these three magic words to their kids, no matter what people say about action speaking louder than words, to remind kids of how you feel about them. Giving the proper affection to your kids, even in words, will go a long way and is something that is great in the long run.
• “Thank you”. Not just because you are the parent means that you don’t have to show your gratitude when your kids have done something for you. Not only will this teach them about the right use of these words, they will also feel special whenever they have done something right because they know that you appreciate them.
• “Great job”. Kids always seek approval from their parents. No matter if it is things they will do or things they have already done. So it is very important for parents to show their kids that they appreciate the good things they did, no matter how small it is, so they will continue doing them. Positive reinforcements will go a long way in teaching children on how to be good people.
Things Not to Say
• “I am the parent/adult, so I am right”. This is a common mistakes for parents because they think they are above their children. This attitude of arrogance and selfishness is something that is not needed if you want to teach your kid about right and wrong. It doesn't follow that you are always right because you are the adult. Learn how to listen to your kids when they have something to say. By learning how to talk to children, you can learn more about them instead of always showing them that you are the superior, which will help them become the best persons they can be.
• “Do as I say, not as I do”. Kids can absord everything they see and hear easily, especially when it comes from their parents. And saying this to your kids is very much like saying it to a deaf person; they will just not understand you. So instead of telling your kids what to do, be good role models to them but doing only the things you want them to do. You don’t want them to do something, don’t do it yourself. It may be a cliché, but it is definitely right to just practice what you preach.
• “No”. Though it is true that it is not good to always say yes to your kids, saying no to them all the time will also give them negative vibes. If you cannot avoid saying no to them, try thinking of a more positive way to do it.
Kids are very sensitive, especially on their earlier stages. So it is very important for parents to know what to say and not to say to them. This list is just a start, but hopefully it can help many parents in their journey as the shapers of the future generation's citizens.
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