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Physical Abuse And More In Narcissism Personality Disorder Partnerships.

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

When we finally marry the one we love, we enter into the relationship with a great deal to look forward to.
We have our expectations from our loved one and from the relationship and most of these expectations revolve around becoming cherished unconditionally, creating a happy home together, growing your family and bringing up happy and healthy children.

But often, this dream is shattered as a result of a variety of factors. One of these factors that damages the very essence of a healthy and happy relationship is getting hitched to someone who is a narcissist.

Now, exactly what is narcissism personality disorder and exactly how can you recognize it? How do you know if you're hitched to a narcissist?

Narcissism personality disorder, as the term implies is a personality disorder. A individual who suffers from this disorder is totally engrossed in himself/herself and doesn't care about other individuals feelings whatsoever. All that matters is what he/she thinks, feels and needs.

If your better half is afflicted with several of the following symptoms, you may want to look at the fact that he/she may be suffering from narcissism personality disorder:

Grandiosity, a requirement to be admired and self-admiration, exaggeration of personal successes, fantasies of brilliance, power and success, exploits people to achieve his own selfish goals, is convinced he or she is envied, envies other people, arrogant and haughty.

Becoming hitched to somebody suffering from narcissism personality disorder in addition comes with the possibility of physical abuse. Whilst the risk of mental, verbal and emotional abuse is high, the potential risk of physical abuse is much greater even though it is not very common.

The very first time you are physically abused you are a victim.

The second time onward you are a volunteer.

The physical abuse gets even worse with each episode, without any remorse on the part of the abuser. The feeling of power is overwhelming and this is just what he/she desires.

Staying in a relationship that involves physical abuse is very risky - you don't need someone telling you that. The situation is even worse when there are children involved.

Finding help is especially essential if there is physical abuse involved.

Becoming a wife or husband to a person suffering from narcissism personality disorder can be very tiring and draining. You will find that no matter what you do to help this man or woman and salvage your relationship does not help at all. In fact, all your efforts to make things better, including putting up with the physical abuse, just seem to make things even worse, leaving you feeling drained and helpless.

The truth of the matter is, what you are trying to do maybe just the thing that you should not be doing.

But in the event that you desire to save your relationship, save your spouse from this affliction and get him/her out of it, there is hope.

The very first thing to remember is that you cannot help save this relationship on your own. You and your relationship need help.

What ever you try to do on your own to help normalize things are probably the worst things that you should be doing. Take a look at the video tutorial at the following link about how to handle a narcissist to uncover more from the experts that will help you to avoid abuse.

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