The simple truth of the matter is that many people have their marriages break up over reason that can be overcome with a little understanding and love. If you possess the slightest feeling that your relationship is in jeopardy or if you inquire what went wrong in ex-relationships, take a look at the list below. One can find "don'ts" in a relationship.
A big deal breaker for most of us is an extra marital affair by one or both partners. Most people cannot abide it. For many the pain of this betrayal is too much to work on the marriage.
Yet as I have already said, each relationship should be a middle ground. For example I may be in great and passionate love with my partner. But sometimes our spouse will ask us to fudge on things we do not want to. I have two options. If he/she does not agree, I will either break my limits or break the relationship.
Take into account that the love quotes that are everywhere are to inspire us and not to be a thing of judgment. Certainly the simple truth is that we all want a love like the love in the quotes about love. Yet that kind of relationship is one that is hard won and not just given.
Let's assume that you go against your principles. What will now happen to my relationship? You might start resenting them for making you compromise. The thoughts would race in your mind as to if they even respect you. You would have to wonder if they truly look to what you think. Why would they ask you to do something that you did not agree with? Do they truly understand where you are coming from?
In the average marriage there will be a good share of arguments. The average fight will actually benefit a relationship. We must make sure, however, not to scar when we fight. You must always respect your mate in the fight. In a relationship, when it comes to fights silence is golden and too many of them ruin what you both have built with love and care.
Boredom and lack of spontaneity: Do not let boredom to step in, be creative and spontaneous. Each marriage must find things to do that are exciting for both. If love is in the air, every day would be a celebration of your relationship. The best things you can do are often free like a walk downtown, visiting friends, or a lazy walk together.
Before doing anything that can affect your relationship, meditate a bit. Do not compromise on principles, but do not do anything rash. One of the worst things you can do is to break up a marriage over something that can be talked out and worked through. You need to make sure that what you are looking at is truly a deal breaker and not just something about your pride. Make sure that you understand what you are doing.
A big deal breaker for most of us is an extra marital affair by one or both partners. Most people cannot abide it. For many the pain of this betrayal is too much to work on the marriage.
Yet as I have already said, each relationship should be a middle ground. For example I may be in great and passionate love with my partner. But sometimes our spouse will ask us to fudge on things we do not want to. I have two options. If he/she does not agree, I will either break my limits or break the relationship.
Take into account that the love quotes that are everywhere are to inspire us and not to be a thing of judgment. Certainly the simple truth is that we all want a love like the love in the quotes about love. Yet that kind of relationship is one that is hard won and not just given.
Let's assume that you go against your principles. What will now happen to my relationship? You might start resenting them for making you compromise. The thoughts would race in your mind as to if they even respect you. You would have to wonder if they truly look to what you think. Why would they ask you to do something that you did not agree with? Do they truly understand where you are coming from?
In the average marriage there will be a good share of arguments. The average fight will actually benefit a relationship. We must make sure, however, not to scar when we fight. You must always respect your mate in the fight. In a relationship, when it comes to fights silence is golden and too many of them ruin what you both have built with love and care.
Boredom and lack of spontaneity: Do not let boredom to step in, be creative and spontaneous. Each marriage must find things to do that are exciting for both. If love is in the air, every day would be a celebration of your relationship. The best things you can do are often free like a walk downtown, visiting friends, or a lazy walk together.
Before doing anything that can affect your relationship, meditate a bit. Do not compromise on principles, but do not do anything rash. One of the worst things you can do is to break up a marriage over something that can be talked out and worked through. You need to make sure that what you are looking at is truly a deal breaker and not just something about your pride. Make sure that you understand what you are doing.
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